Five ways to minimize conflicts with your lover

We live in an era of many societal conflicts ranging from conflict between lovers, between family members, between village members up to between countries and even continents. Ways to mitigate or minimize conflicts need to be embraced to  better the society. Below are five ways to  one can use to  avoid  conflict with his or her lover.
1. Be honest always
The most difficult thing for all humans is to be perfect in saying the truth. False information decreases trust and propagates hate. A man who lies to his wife consistently  irritates the wife making the wife to be insecure. The same applies to a woman who likes to her lover. Being  untruthful  with your words means that you are also likely to be untruthful with your body hence engaging in  sleeping with any woman or man around you. Remember no matter how painful the truth may seem to be it is the best medicine for human race.
2. Be open to each other
Talk your heart out in a sensitive way. Tell your lover that you prefer cooking in the house and not spending money in cafes or restaurants, tell him that you prefer a kiss to a hug, tell her that you prefer going to the gym and not going for movies. This promotes understanding among the two of you and increases trust. Don't feel ashamed, talk and be less burdened.
3. Go for medical examination together
Visit the hospital  together for Sexual Transmitted Infection screening, fertility tests and check for traits like haemophilia and sickle cell. This enables the two of you to be prepared emotionally and psychologically. It also makes planning easier and comfortable. Don't sire kids who die after few months only because you neglected screening. This also averts blame games that arise when one is impotent.
4. Allow your lover time with  friends
Never be mean with giving your dearest time to mingle with friends. Although some people view this as a distraction and snare to relationships, it's not always the case. Let her mix and learn too from friends who are mature. For a man let him meet his mature and responsible friends. Remember to note the type of friends your lover associates with.  Mingling helps one to learn and take caution of Life especially before marriage.
5. Keep your secrets sealed
Never allow confidential information that is meant for the two of you to leak even to trusted friends. At times these trusted friends have other trusted friends who may increase  progressively making it a public notice.  Sensitive information should be guarded with enough jealousy and caution. Never tell people that my man is impotent, my woman is poor in bed, my lady only knows one sex position, my man does not know how to hit my g spot. Such are embarrassing and humiliating. Sexuality and sex is never to be exposed. Mend the weaknesses that you've noted in your lover.